Perils of eMailing a Dominatrix
The longer I go without a session, the more I want one and the less likely an email I send to a mistress, a dominatrix, will be a good one.
I know I get so twitchy for the BDSM experience that when I’m composing the email, I usually say something stupid or somehow manage to offend.
One such case was memorable. And instructive.
How To Lose A Client
While I accept much of the blame for this, I suggest the mistress was fundamentally stupid. She should have realized I was in need and less than sensible with my email.
Also, lets face it, I am the client. I pay. She could have earned money from me over an extended time if her attitude had been better.
Ok, so what went wrong?
The mistress I’d been seeing had left the industry. Hence I needed to see someone else. I looked around, found a likely mistress and sent an email which managed to offend her in some way.
Well, she berated me. Pure and simple. She got right on my case. I now wonder if she thought I was into humiliation?
So I responded, ‘Ok. I won’t bother you again.‘ Clearly by her response she was bothered by me.
Well, she sent a second stinker and said I wasn’t very submissive and she didn’t say she wouldn’t see me. I never responded. I never will.
The Mistakes.
Firstly. My email was crappy. Simple. That was my only and big mistake.
She made 2 mistakes. She didn’t realize I was twitchy for a session. If she had, and had sent a better response I’d probably still be seeing her.
Her second mistake was the way she spoke to me. She was aloof and haughty and did not treat me like a person. In my email I had tried (I thought) to show her respect. Her email to me was totally disrespectful.
I remember thinking at the time that she was totally absorbed by herself. I remember thinking if that were the case, why would I want to see her?
By Contrast
I sent another email a few days later to another mistress. She seemed to understand me far better. We had many lovely sessions together.
I remember, my wife made her a chocolate mud cake for her birthday.